Today’s #SurvivorSunday feature is the gorgeous Natalie Harmon. Read her story below as she shares with us her experience with domestic violence and how she came to find love for herself and in others.

Natalie’s Story

I’m 31 years old. I’m in a healthy relationship with a man that has shown me a love I never knew exist. As I reflect on the relationships I was in 8-10 years ago it looks like a nightmare. I thank God for a second chance, that I am alive today to experience the love I have, and that I am here to help other women. I remember a time when I was literally picked up and thrown out the front door. I was in shorts and a tank top and thrown outside in the middle of a winter night.  Each situation was some how my fault. When someone is manipulative they really have a way of making you believe every situation is your fault and you deserve what you are going through. I will never forget the holes in doors and walls, the broken fixtures around the house, the bruises on my wrist, arms, neck, and a blood abrasion that covered 3/4 of my back. Verbal, mental, emotional, and physical abuse. Drugs, alcohol, and sexual assault. Events I blamed myself for.

In December 2007 I found out I was pregnant. After years of a life on drugs and in abusive relationships I surrendered my life and accepted Jesus Christ. I am a RENEWED SURVIVOR!

I found myself a single mother at 22 years old with no car and unable to pay for my apartment and childcare. I was determined to make way for my son and I. I trusted the Lord and he always provided. In 8 years I finished my Bachelor degree, bought cars, bought a townhouse, grew in my career, and fell in love. I praise God to be where I am today. It was no easy path. It’s been blood, sweat, and tears. I survived and it was worth it.

I want women to know their worth. No person or experience defines who you are. Watch for the red flags and be honest with yourself. Look at the people you around for who they are NOT who you think they can become. Believe in yourself. Work on yourself. You need to be healed within to have a healthy relationship. You are loved. You are amazing. YOU ARE WORTH IT!

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